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Remember: We are NOT God

So often we try so hard to help others.  Whether its by giving advice, writing a recommendation letter for a job, letting their kids carpool with yours to school, loaning them money in times of need, letting them sleep on your couch for a night or two, keeping them from literally beating the crap out of someone, taking them to AA meetings, making sure they have a ride to bible study, being an accountability partner to keep them out of trouble, or even bailing them out of jail – these are all great gestures and acts of love and kindness.

Sometimes these gestures are exactly what the recipient needs to keep them from making a bad choice, going off the deep end, ending up in prison or even committing suicide.  But sadly, sometimes, these good gestures only yield temporary results that keep the recipient off the ledge for only a day or so.  Then the next thing you know that same person does the exact opposite of what you advised them to do.  They take your money, spend it on something completely different from what they said it was for and never pay you back.  They start drinking again after 5 years of sobriety.  They stop coming to bible study and church.  They get fired after a week from the job you helped them get.  They bash their neighbor’s head in and end up arrested.

Whatever the outcome may be, I am learning that in either scenario I am NOT God.  My responsibility is to do what God has called me as a Christian to do – show love, in whatever way I can.  So many years, especially in ministry, I used to try to “fix” so many people, solve their problems, answer their prayers, and patch up their lives.  In short, I  tried to be God.  Although, He definitely uses us a vessels to accomplish His will and influence others’ lives, we have to remember that ultimately, He does the “fixing”, the “changing”, and the “problem-solving” in the world around us.  We shouldn’t feel guilt, or pressure for that matter, to try and be God – not even for our family or closest friends.

I’ve even been guilty of changing my own personal goals and dreams just to allow myself to be a “savior” to others.  God has recently taught me, that I should definitely help if and when I can, but that I should continue to walk in His plan for my own life in the process.  The awesome thing about all this is that when we do “step aside” and allow God to work, time actually passes.  Then you look back and see not only how God has worked in your own life but also in the life of the person you were originally trying to help.  Its even more amazing when you realize that God works things out much better than anything you could have done.

As cliche, as it may sound – do what you can to help, pray, and then let go, and let God!

 

 

 

 

 

Do What You Know To Do

When you don’t know what to do, do what you know to do!

A situation may be out of your control, or maybe you’ve exhausted your resources, pursued every possible avenue, sought help everywhere you could, and you have no clue what step to take next.

All you can do is what you know to do:  wake up each day, get up, read your bible, pray, and leave the rest with God.  Sometimes all you can do is keep moving, as if its a normal day, all while putting your trust in the Lord.  Not only is that sometimes all you can do, but its the absolute BEST thing to do!

My New Online Course!

Today is an awesome day!  After 2 years of hard work in my free time, I was finally able to complete my first of many online courses!  It was published today by Udemy and is now available to the public online.

One thing I’m learning is that anything you do for God and the promotion of His Word is never time that is wasted.   If there is a project, goal, simple task or anything that God called you start, that seems to be taking forever to finish, or that you’ve tossed aside for a while – remember why you started in the first place, pray for focus, and get back at it!  Whatever you do, don’t quit!  No matter how long it takes, it will be well worth it in the end.  Doing what He calls us to do always is.

My prayer is that he will use me through this course to educate, encourage, motivate and inspire others through His Word.  See the course information below along with a promo video and a 50% discount link for yourself or anyone you believe may be interested:

“Learning the Bible 101:  Benefits, Methods and Hindrances”

 

*Be one of the first 25 students to sign up for a 50% discount utilizing the link below:

https://www.udemy.com/learning-the-bible-101-benefits-methods-and-hindrances/?couponCode=LTB101ITM

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