Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that God is NOT always going to answer our prayers in the exact way that we want Him to.
So often we submit our “microwaved prayers” to God, expecting our “microwaved blessings” as a result. Listing every detail of what we want or think we need. We want it ‘made to order’ and ready in the exact timing that we select.
We pray for a new relationship, asking for a specific type man/woman and then the person He brings us is the exact opposite of the image we crafted in our dreams.
We pray for a new job, and the job He blesses us with is something we never thought we would end up doing.
We pray for an opportunity to excel and He blesses us with an opportunity that is less than ideal but comes with a raise. Yet, we’re still mad because its not as big of a raise that we wanted.
We pray for a new car and someone literally blesses us with one – free of charge – but its not the exact make and model we hoped for.
We send our prayers up like microwaved suggestions to God, telling him how we want it, when we want it, and dictating the specifics of our blessing.
But He’s been teaching me that His blessings are sometimes going to come in ways I don’t expect, through people I least expect, and at times I’m not even expecting it. At the end of the day, a blessing is a blessing. How dare we be ungrateful, impatient and even complain when it comes. Remember God ALWAYS knows best! And sometimes He even has jokes lol.
Thanking God today because I’m alive, have an awesome relationship with God, and am at a place in my life where I can truly say I have found peace. The storms still rage on in everyday life all around me, but in the midst of it all, I am blessed to be able to enjoy the peace that only God can bring. There are so many things I can complain about, worry about, stress about, get frustrated about and even cry about…..but today I’m a peace. At peace because l know that I’m a part of God’s plan; that he destined me for a purpose; that He chose me before I was born; that He will never leave me; that He protects and watches over me; that He comforts me; that He guides me; that He listens and actually cares.
So yes, today I’m at peace, celebrating my birthday, because for 38 years my God has carried me through and loves me!
Why do we get mad at God?
Blaming Him for circumstances we created
For a relationship gone wrong
Because we chose a partner we should have never even dated
Because we can’t make ends meet
Living paycheck to paycheck and always broke
Forgetting the money we wasted, stole, or gambled away
Never had a budget, and now poor life ain’t no joke
Mad because we got addicted to drugs
Or because we drove drunk and crashed the car
Or having our third kid by a third baby daddy
Or because we wanted revenge and went too far
Showed up late to work constantly
No real excuse, just plain lazy and didn’t care
Then want to blame it on the boss being racist
The day we finally get fired, claiming life isn’t fair
Wondering why we can’t keep friends
And why people avoid us by choice
Forgetting all the lying, backstabbing
Pain, tears and hurt we caused with our own voice
Our kids don’t listen, obey or respect us at all
Scratching our head, wondering why
Forgetting we paid them little to no attention
Barely involved in their lives, didn’t even notice them cry
Social media has had several “challenges” this past year – the Mannequin challenge, the Get Out Challenge, the Running Man challenge and so forth.
Then we’ve got all sorts of “challenges” in the workplace – diet and workout challenges, and weight loss competitions.
We’ve also got all kinds of “stress relief” activities available – yoga, tai-chi, meditation therapy, etc.
So many things to help us cope with the pressures of life. So many alternatives for stress relief and relaxation.
We rush to this class and that. We have special groups and social gatherings. The gym rats like myself will get up as early as 5 a.m. to workout for an hour or so. But when was the last time we challenged ourselves to consistently set aside some meditation time to read the Bible?
I’m challenging myself this month to have 30 consecutive days of “meditation” sessions with God, reading His Word.
Why? Because apart from my hectic everyday life of work, gym, church, parenting, stress, bills, annoying people and challenging circumstances, I need a spiritual boost in the midst of it all to keep me sane lol.
In case you forgot (like I sometimes do) – there is no better stress relief than the Word of God. Plus it has much longer lasting effects than any hour long yoga session ever could!
Don’t let Satan trick you into thinking that God can’t use you because of your past sins. If and when God calls you to speak, encourage, advise, write, pray, teach, act or minister in accordance to His Word – do it! Remember the great heroes of the Bible that God used in spite of their past sins:
Abraham – the liar
Moses – the murderer
Jacob – the deceiver
Rahab – the prostitute
David – the adulterer
Peter – denied knowing Christ
Paul – the persecutor
Sounds to me like we all pass the eligibility test!
Why do we look down on people who struggle with things that we don’t? Do weaknesses have levels? Am I better if my issues are only in certain areas vs. others?
Galatians 6:1-5 (The Living Bible):
“Dear brothers, if a Christian is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help him back onto the right path, remembering that next time it might be one of you who is in the wrong. Share each other’s troubles and problems, and so obey our Lord’s command. If anyone thinks he is too great to stoop to this, he is fooling himself. He is really a nobody. Let everyone be sure that he is doing his very best, for then he will have the personal satisfaction of work well done and won’t need to compare himself with someone else. Each of us must bear some faults and burdens of his own. For none of us is perfect!”
One of my many pet peeves is when people say they “can’t” do something. Not because they physically can’t or because something is truly preventing them from doing so, but because they simply won’t and refuse to try.
It bothers me even more so when Christians declare they can’t do something.
Now, most people who know me will tell you that I’m a very disciplined person and that if I set my mind to something or set a goal for myself that more often than not, I will get it done. However, I will tell you that none of that comes easily or even naturally for me. All my self-discipline and self-control comes from God. And the same Spirit that lives in me, lives in every person who professes to know God as Lord and Savior – His Word tells us so.
That being said, he declares that through His Spirit, we have and can exercise self-control/discipline in any aspect of our lives. So lets stop making excuses! Excuses for not following through on that diet, not going to the gym, not cutting back on drinking or smoking, not spending time with our kids, not saving money, not sticking to our budget, not going to church, etc.
Anything in your life that is physically within in your means to do it, that you want to work on, or get better at – lets set a goal to do so. Lets ask God to help us exercise more self control and discipline by the power of His Spirit – trust me, you won’t be able to do it alone, even if you tried!